8 Things You Don’t Need to Know About Your Girlfriend

1. Her Favorite Designer – Can’t tell the difference between Tory Burch and Rag & Bone for the life of you? That’s OK: Recognizing a new dress or top (and complimenting her on it) goes a lot further.
2. What Her Perfume’s Called – That’s why she has a best friend—and if the perfume bottle’s running low this holiday season, just call her for the name.
3. Her Favorite Makeup – Sometimes a little mystery is good. Wouldn’t you rather believe she looks and feels awesome all the time because that’s just the way she wakes up looking and feeling every morning?
4. Her Hair Stylist’s Name – Part of being together means having your separate interests, too. Some names are must-knows; others leave you sounding like a character from Legally Blonde. This one falls in the latter category.
5. Her Best Friend’s Latest Boyfriend Drama – If she’s venting to you about her BFF’s latest crisis, listen. But know that by no means are you required to remember this information—or cut ties with the guy because of it.
6. Her Ring Size – If you’re at the point where you need to know, you probably already do. Otherwise, there’s no need.
7. The Names of All Her Exes – Knowing she’s got an ex-husband or was in a 10-year relationship can be useful information—and explain a lot about why she is who she is. Details about the DJ, the guy she met on spring break, or the semi-pro athlete she dated simply aren’t necessary or wanted.
8. Her Salary – Until you’re serious—splitting finances, living together, paying for kids’ education—knowing the number of zeros on her paycheck shouldn’t matter. And remember: Picking up the tab should never be a matter of who makes more.